Wednesday, November 19, 2008

24 days til D-Day...or maybe 19 days....

I know, I know, it's been quite a while since I've updated up here. Please don't hurt me! We've been busy and I don't always feel like I have something blog-worthy to post. That and I procrastinate. I find too many other things I need/want to do. Sometimes I just plain don't feel like updating. No offense to anyone, it's not b/c i don't want anyone to know whats going, i just don't feel like typing it all up and thinking and whatnot. I have a lot less energy these days and since my iron is low, that just adds to the fatigue. I am taking iron supplements, but i am forgetful, so sometimes i miss one or two or ten. So, i haven't updated since sometime in Sept I believe, so that means Halloween and some drs appts are tidbits of info to write about. My dr appts have been going well. The one I had Sept 17, my fundal height was measuring 9days ahead, and then my appt on the 12th, it was 11 days ahead. No reason for the midwife to check on anything b/c you can be +/- 2wks and be 'normal'. And you have to measure off at least twice for them to be concerned. With measuring ahead or behind, there may or may not be reason for concern. There are many reasons to measure ahead or behind. I'm no longing measuring ahead, at least as of my last appt, last wed the 26th. At that appt I was measuring at 34wks b/c the baby has dropped down and is engaged. Great to hear, but makes for one sore mama. I feel like a barbie doll that's had her legs popped off several times. I found some other very interesting and good news at this past appt. As of that appt I was a fingertip dilated (i'll take what i can get!) and 75% effaced, so things are moving in the right direction. Here is the interesting news: the midwife was able to get a good feel of the baby, and she said she was already 7lbs, give or take a few oz!!!!!!! And she is LONG! I know the ladies will probably get this better, hopefully they can explain it better to everyone else. Since the baby is engaged, basically, only her shoulders are above my pelvic opening. So her shoulders are waaayyy down a lil below what ppl consider their hips, and then her back curves with my side (she likes to hang out in my right side) and then her butt is at the TOP of my belly. So her back is super long. Who knows how long her legs are!! I'm thinking she may be longer than Max was at birth, but who knows. I've just been in awe ever since that appt. Max probably weighed about the same at this time, but no one had a clue, so it's weird to think and know that this one is so big already. I'm not too concerned over delivery, if she's growing at the normal rate of around 1/2 lb a wk, that puts her about 9 1/2 lbs at delivery. However, my midwife is concerned, and doesn't want me to go past the 23rd (i'm 39wks on the 21st). That's the earliest she is on duty on L&D when I'm 39wks and if the baby is here by then we may end w/ an induction. I'm really hoping it doesn't come to that though. As for right now we're walking a lot and i'm taking Evening primrose oil, doing squats, and whatever else i can think of/find to possibly help get her here before then. I have my next appt tomorrow, so i'll find out if any of it is helping at least. I still can't believe how long this girl is! Back to appts though: Baby girl's heart rate has been great at every appt and all seems to be going smoothly. In Sept the midwife did mention a possible induction at 39wks if the baby was looking like she was going to be big like her brother. I still feel like she's going to be early, but who knows. So back to the low iron stuff last time they were checked (about 2wks ago) they were pretty low. 8.8 i believe he said, normal is 12 (back in sept mine was 10.4, so i was borderline). So i have to take the iron pills and add high iron stuff to my diet. At my last appt my MW told me that if it doesn't go up they may have to give me pitocin after birth to help w/ bleeding. Just the small amt that you bleed is a lot when your anemic. So I'm downing the pills and eating my shrimp, trail mix, etc.

So on to Halloween. It...wasn't that great. Max was cute as can be in his UPS costume (What Can Brown do For YOU!). We had a Halloween kids festival on the 30th at the Surfside club on Camp Kinser (camp where Matt works) that we went to. Last minute I found out I was supposed to work at it, so most of the time we were there i was busy working a booth. Which sucked. I didn't get to have fun w/ Max and Matt and spend time with them. I did get some pictures thank goodness, but i really would have rather been hanging out with them, especially since Matt was on the range all that wk, so he was leaving at 230am and not getting home til 5 or later most nights. He'd gotten out earlier that day for some reason, but all it did was screw up his last day on the range. Which is way Halloween itself wasn't that great. Matt was supposed to be out of there around lunch time. It doesn't take that long to qual and get everything done. However, the reason they got out earlier on thurs was b/c the SNCO on the range decided instead of doing everything they were supposed to do on thurs, they'd only do part and do the rest on friday. So they didn't even get done shooting til 3:45pm, so they didn't even leave til sometime after 4 (they had to have the barracks checked out, make sure all the areas were cleaned, etc), and the range is 1-1.5 hrs away. Plus they left when traffic is starting to pick up. So, the finally leave, they have to go down to kinser to turn in weapons before he can even come home. Oh, I almost forgot a couple of things: 1) trick or treating was from 6-9pm, and 2)Matt had Gate Sobriety duty that night as well, which meant he had duty from 830pm-500am. So I took Max by myself to go trick or treating. Which is a lil more difficult than it sounds since Max loves to watch everything and take off if he sees something interesting. So the constant pulling, tugging, lifting and carrying takes a toll. We went to a tower (apt bldg) on Camp Foster first b/c we knew some people who lived there. Most ppl didn't have signs up to signify whether or not they were participating. So we probably only went to 5-7 doors that ppl were actually answering. Then we went across the rd to the multiplexes. Similar problem there. Those participating were supposed to have there outside light on. Well there was probably 10-12 that had lights on, but only about 5 were actually answering and giving out candy. And it was nerve racking b/c they are basically right there on the street, so I worried Max would get away from me. Matt called when we were at the multi's and so we cut our trip short so we coudl go home and at least seem him for a few mins before he had to go back down to Kinser for duty. Yea, we saw him for all of 10mins before he had to leave. So, long day, and things not going the way they were supposed to didn't exactly leave me with a feeling of a great Halloween. I know Max had fun walking around and seeing everyone, and thats more of what counts. I just wish Matt could have been there. I didn't even get any pictures of Max trick or treating : ( I did get some good ones at that festival though as well as some at Max's daycare. They had a lil party on that friday and wore their costumes, played games and had some cake. All of these pics are posted in the web albums so check them out.

So another bit of excitement that happened that wk (what better time then when Matt is 1.5hrs away?) was that i had some cxts that monday, over 6 in an hr, so I went in to L &D as that is protocol. I wasn't too concerned with calling Matt at first b/c i didn't have any info to give him other than that I was going to get checked out. but I was told that word needed to be passed to him b/c if something was up, it was going to take him 1.5 hrs to get here from whenever he did get contacted. Plus everyone just thought he should know. I didn't want to worry him or get his range stuff messed up b/c it can be quite difficult to get on the range out here sometimes. Well, word went up the chain of command and a call was made to the range. Guess who never got the word though...i bet you'll never figure it out....Matt. No one at the range passed the word to him. So he had no clue. Not until he called at 530-6 to tell me he was on his way home. He asked if i was ok, and I said, hmm no one told you huh? Then he was like uh-oh..... So now we know if Matt is ever on the range again and there is any sort of problem, we're better off sending a pigeon to get the word to him. The range personnel decided it wasn't important enough or someone forgot or who knows. Either way, even though i wasn't concerned with him being called, the breakdown in communication didn't exactly leave me feeling very reassured. Funny thing is, he wasn't supposed to really have his cell phone out there, had it anyway just in case, but didn't have much of a signal. However, around 12 he had the feeling he should call. Unfortunately though he didn't get through b/c of the signal. I was leaving the hospital at that time but he would have let them know he needed to head home (He was already done shooting that day). All was fine by the way, just some random contractions.

So that's Halloween, on to Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving was great, though quite different than what we are used to. This is the first year that I've made the complete meal. We always had 3-4 different places to go to for Thanksgiving, when we were stateside, and I only had to make a dessert or a side dish. It was different not to have so much running around and traveling so much. I definitely miss going around and seeing all of our family. We do have a friend that is here from stateside and he spent Thanksgiving with us. Noe is a good friend of ours from Cherry Point, the 3 of us helped out at the Havelock Young Marines together. He has been here for several months w/ a det that was on the MEU. It's been great to hang out with him and it was really great to have him for Thanksgiving. He's in the same boat as us away from family, but he's also in a worse one. He's away from his wife who is due Feb 5th w/ their first child. So he's missed a lot the pregnancy and won't be getting home til pretty close to her due date if not after or (hopefully) a few wks before. Matt and Max picked him up Thanksgiving day and we ate our meal (yummy ham, homemade mac and cheese, corn on the cob, etc - yea not necessarily the traditional meal lol) and then went for a long walk that evening. That walk was killer. I didn't think i'd be able to move the next day. I could barely move that night! 1/2 mile to the park (a lot uphill), 1/2 mile in the park (all uphill), 1/2 mile home (part uphill), plus the 66 steps (6 sets of 11, believe me, i know) up to our apt. wow. We won't be doing that walk again, at least not anytime soon. Noe spent the night and then helped us put up our Christmas tree and decor on Friday. We all had a great time getting it put up, even though the boys joked and fussed/whined some (mostly Matthew) about it. He's always gotta mess about something. We went on another walk Friday evening and then Noe spent the night again. Saturday we got up and went to the holiday bazaar on base. That was pretty neat. Lots of vendors w/ Japanese goods and such. There were other booths and vendors set up as well. You could find so much stuff there. Ornaments, Bingata prints, Kimonos, furniture, Calligraphy, Sanshins (instrument), toys, etc. Afterwards we took Noe back to his barracks and then went to the exchange and then the commissary to get a few things. Had our nightly walk of course. Sunday we went to church and Max apparently thoroughly impressed the girl in the nursery because as soon as Matt dropped him off, he discovered the puzzles and he took them apart and did them like he'd seen them 100x and done them just as many. He loves puzzles and has mastered the wooden ones and is now doing the cardboard ones that have a frame/border around them. He really enjoys them. We only have one at home like that, but i finally found some more and he's getting those in his stocking at Christmas.

I almost forgot! The wkend before Thanksgiving, we decided to go to Neo Park, which is kind of a combo zoo/petting zoo/bird sanctuary. It's about an hr north from us. You probably won't find a place quite like this at home b/c of insurance. When you walk in, there are birds everywhere. There aren't cages or anything, just netting way way up and of course somewhere on the sides. They come right up to you, you can feed them and pet them. We walked through there, to the next habitat which had flamingos, then to a petting zoo area where Max got to sit on a huge tortoise. After that we got in these paddle boats that looked like swans and went around the lake/pond area. There were two islands that had lemurs on them and we also got to see more birds and some fish and turtles. The lemurs looked ready to jump in the boat when we went by. You can tell they are used to being fed. It was kinda deja vu because when i was pregnant w/ Max, we went to a zoo in FL and kayaked around a habitat and there were lemurs at that one too, and we were warned they may jump in the boat b/c they want to be fed. We always joked if i got bit, Max would be Lemur Boy and his middle name (that had to be an L) could me Lemur. We walked through the next habitat that had peacocks and such. We'd put Max in the stroller before getting there since we knew he was getting tired. When we got into that one, there were peacocks and some other birds following us, knowing we had food. Max had some crackers he was snacking on, and he decided to offer one to a peacock. Well, the peacock took it. And Max, exploded. He was thoroughly upset. Don't know if the peacock's quick reflexes scared him or if he was just showing the cracker to the thing and was mad that the peacock took it. Either way, it was hilarious (which sounds horrible). He was just so mad. If you go to the web album you can see pictures from there. There is a picture i took right before it happened, Max has 3 crackers sitting in his tray. Matt commented how greta it would hav ebeen to have an 'after' picture, but we were buys laughing and checking to make sure the peacock didn't get Max's finger when he took the cracker. We got to see lots of different birds as well as some monkeys, lemurs, porcupines and other animals and had a great time. I've heard the place has gone down hill some, but we still had a great time and have an annual pass, so I'm sure we'll check it out again.
Well, thats about all I can think of. We also had our USMC ball, during this time and you can see a few pics in the web album. It was the usual ball: Ceremony, Eating, goofing off and dancing. I have my next OB appt tomorrow (Fri) and then we are going on a tour down to Naha on Sat. So maybe I can add another post soon with some more info. I'll try to anyway :)

Friday, September 26, 2008

Wow...another update so soon, who'da thunk it?

So, yea I know, everyone is probably in awe that I'm updating again. Heck, matter of fact, I bet no one will even check for another wk or so unless they are really bored, b/c it's not expected to be updated so soon. What can I say, either I'm getting better at this or I have too much time on my hands. I really don't think it's the latter of the two, but i'm not so sure it's the first either. Matt, Max and I went and checked out the Kinser Festival last Sat. That was basically a waste of time. It's cool to see the different vehicles and such, but they typically have the same ones at each festival and other than those, the only other thing thats there are food vendors, games (that was high priced and kinda dumb), a few rides (also high priced) and a few booths of different units trying tosell t-shirts and such, and usually a stage with music. Typically the music isn't anything we are interested in plus it's not like Max is just going to sit there and enjoy the music :) But it did at least give us somewhere to walk around and get a lil exercise in. Max got a inflatable sword a marine and his wife gave him, so that made his day. We put him in a few of the vehicles and let him check those out.
On Sunday we got together with our friend Noe from Havelock Young Marines that was out here getting ready to deploy with the MEU. We hung out and took him to a couple of shops out in town. This is the time he's been out here, so we've been taking him around to different places. He's wife is pregnant too and is also having a girl, so I made sure to show him lots of cute girl stuff he could get for the baby. He left this week on the MEU so we won't see him again for a couple of months. We took him to the Crocodile for dinner, which was delicious! I love that place! It's a seafood place and bar and you can eat outside or inside. They have patio type tables outside and it's a really nice, relaxed atmosphere. They also have a crocodile, named Coco they you can check out while there. I think she's 6 yrs old. They have turtles and some other creatures inside in tanks too. This is the second time we've been there and both times I've gotten the snow crab legs..mmm... they are so yummy! Here's a pic of my food, well, the crab legs anyway, i didn't think to get my sides items (veggies, potatoe, bread) in the pic. They are all about presentation here.
The little bowl up top by my glass is for dipping your fingers in afterward. I guess is helps get the smell off. That's just the 2 shoulders that I get, you can also get 4 shoulders. Matt and Noe both the same thing - Red Snapper w/ the sides and then they both order an order of Crocodile Bites. mmmmm....doesn't that sound yummy, crocodile tail! It actually looked pretty good, and Max had some too!

After supper we took a ride on the big ferris wheel and then took Noe back to Kadena. That day (sun) Max also started running a fever. We took him in on Mon to get checked out and they said he had a virus. Tues/wed time frame he started getting red bumps/blisters on his hands and feet and a few elsewhere. I already had an appt set for Thur for him to talk to his dr about testing him for allergies, so when we brought him in on Thurs we had the dr check him out. He found Max had some blisters/ulcers in his mouth too and he was diagnosed w/ having Hand, Foot, and Mouth. It's no big deal for those who aren't familiar with it. It's just one of those childhood illnesses that has to run it's course. He has a few red places on the soles of his feet now too, but they don't seem to bother him (they aren't blisters thank goodness). When we discussed the allergy testing with Max's dr we found out that out here testing under 24mo old tends to be inconclusive b/c they don't have an allergist at the hospital and have to send everything out. So for now we are going to try giving him claritin once a day for a month and see if that helps any. Hopefully it will and he won't be sick all the time like he has been. It seems like since June he's been constantly sick without much breaktime in between different illnesses (typically cold type things). We have a follow up appt in Oct to see how things are going. We also found out that when we took him in on Monday, he was 34inches tall!!!!! He didn't fight or push w/ his feet or anything since he didn't feel good, so I know it was accurate. On Thursday when we took him in, it was the same thing, he didn't fight, and he was over 34 inches, about 34 1/4 inches tall!! Talk about going through a growth spurt! We were just talking about how it wouldn't be long before he'd be 3 ft, but godo grief! He'll be there by Thanksgiving if he keeps going! Heck, probably by Halloween! He was also measuring at 30lbs, 3 oz on Thurs. Today we went out for brunch at another favorite place, the Rose Garden, for a Young Marine Staff meeting. I love that place. They have the best breakfast. It reminds us alot of Denny's. Except its actually an Italian restaraunt, but all the people who work there are Japanese, and the breakfast is like from home, lol. Well, I think thats about it for now. Everything is still going well pregnancy wise. I think this lil girl is into kickboxing. Or Gymnastics, I think she thinks my bladder is a trampoline. Hope all is well for everyone and please keep in touch with us!!!







Friday, September 19, 2008

Double Digits

FYI that's at 25wks...



We've made it to the double digits! 99 days to go til my due date! Hard to believe it's already so close. Then in other ways, seems like i should be farther. Not much is going on with us right now. I had an OB appt on the 12th (all is well), Max had his 18mo check up and shots after my appt. He weighed 29lbs, 13oz and was around 33.5inches tall. That all went fine, kinda. His appt went fine, he had a bit of a cold and a slight fever, but was given the ok to get his two shots. He had to get Hep A and DTAP. He got his shots around 430 and then we had some more running around to do. When he had his bath around 7ish it looked kinda like a bug bite but we figured it was ok. Sat. Matt changed most of his diapers and gave him his bath, so I didn't even see it or think about looking at it, as he'd had both shots before and never had any problems. Sunday morning rolls around and when I changed his diaper we noticed it had turned into a 2-2.5in by 1.5inch patch that was swollen/puffy and pretty angry red. It also seemed to be pretty tender. So off to the ER we went. We weren't sure if it was a majro deal or not since he's never had a reaction. Also, we didn't know which shot was put into which leg as the guy never told us. When we were finally seen, the dr seemed to lean more towards it being a reaction to the Hep A for some reason, but she wasn't sure if it was even a reaction (even though it was at the shot location) and thought he might have gotten cellulitis from/after/during the shot. She drew a line around the perimeter and gave him some tylenol and sent us home w/ antibiotics incase it was cellulitis. They set up an appt for him the next day w/ his Pediatrician he'd seen on friday. That was a fun 4 hrs at the ER (it was during his nap time...yay!) I did some research when we got home and it seemed like it was most likely the DTAP that he was having a reaction to, but we still had no clue. At his appt on Monday, the dr and I agreed that it was not cellulitis and we both thought i was the DTAP. She looked up in the records in the computer system b/c they are supposed to annotate it, but no one did. So we still had no clue. But she tell us it was just a local reaction, nothing major, didn't mean it'd happen worse next time or prevent him from getting any more doses if need be. Luckily he's not due for another DTAP til he's 4 and he's done w/ the Hep A ones. She told us it wouldn't matter too much whether we knew which it was or not, but she was going to talk to immunizations and see what she could figure out. That evening she called (which was unexpected) and said that actually it was the Hep A vaccine that he'd gotten in that leg. Still didn't change anything, just had to keep an eye on it to make sure it didn't get worse or anything. It was already looking a lot better at his appt that day though. So, that was our excitement for the wkend. Now i just have to figure out whats on his wrist... i noticed a bump on tuesday that was red around it, it doesn't look like a bug bite, just a bump kinda like a blister, but it isn't soft like a blister. I think i'll be taking him in this wk to find out what the deal is. A friend who is an LPN looked at it for me and said that they probably wouldn't do anything for it, unless it got bigger or redder. Now it seems to be itching him though. Ah, theres always something going on, keeping me on my toes. Matt had a fun and long wk. Higher ups were here from HQ all wk having briefs and trying to get packages done for reenlistments and such. They were delayed getting here by 2 days so everything was a cluster. He didn't get home Tues til 8pm, wed til 5-530 adn then thur and fri weren't too bad, but still long days with a lot of time spent running around and trying to get stuff done. They left yesterday (thank goodness). We were hoping to be able to go out to dinner w/ a marine that was Matt's senior in charge back when we first got to Cherry Point. He's a great guy and was also at station and got Matt transferred to VMR-1 at Cherry Point. He's a monitor now up at HQ and so Matt is able to keep in touch with him fairly often. His family is still in the Cherry Point area now while he's a Quantico and he's going to be coming back to NC after he finishes up there. One of those guys you want to try and work for again. Unfortunately b/c everything was so backed up we didn't get to have dinner, but Max and I went to say hello yesterday. It was very good to see him.
So, now that i'm at 99 days, i feel like i am soooooo behind the power curve and am ill prepared for this lil girl. I'm not sure what the deal is, just hormones I guess. I feel like i just have to get some things done, now. Like finding something for her to wear home. Having clothes that fit her lol. We only have like 1 NB outfit and a couple of onesies, everythign else is 0-3 and bigger. Max wore NB for 3-4wks or so when he was born, so i'm sure she will too. We have most of the major stuff. I think a swing and bouncer are the only other things gear wise that i'd like to get. It's just a pain to get stuff here b/c of the lack of selection. So we have to order a lot of stuff. lol or at least, I have to order a lot of stuff. I don't like what they have here or theres something in particular that I want. But it's not necessarily the looks of stuff. Like I want a travel swing this time instead of a full size (takes up too much room). Well, they don't have any travel ones here.
My moods seem to be swinging a lot more lately too. Reckon it's just getting to that time. Well, i can't think of anything else to update on. I'm told these are typically long novels anyway, so I'll go ahead and end it here : )

Friday, August 22, 2008

The results are in...

I had my 20wk ultrasound on Monday the 11th and a regular OB appt on Tuesday. I know I said I'd blog pretty quickly afterward, but well, it was quite a long wk and so was this past wk.
First off, we are having a……… GIRL!!! I Still have a due date around the end of Dec.
My ultrasound here was pretty extensive. They do very in-depth u/s here since we are on an island. The tech brought me back and told me they’d get Matt when it was time for the gender verification, and it would be 45-50mins before that happened! I had no clue it was going to be this in-depth until then. It was neat to see everything in so much detail. The tech had to get me to roll on my sides a few times b/c the baby wasn’t in a good position for some of the pictures (spine, heart) they were trying to get. Ended up having to have another tech come in to get a good profile pic of the 4 chambers of the heart b/c the first tech’s arm was so tired! This lil girl just didn’t want to cooperate! They knew the heart looked fine and everything was like it should be, but they have to get good enough pics for the radiologist and OB to see. After we finished that and brought Matt back, the first lady was busting at the seams to tell us, but the second tech hadn’t even looked yet. Once she got a look they told us they saw ‘girl parts’!
After everything was finished, they were trying to go back through for some reason, and couldn’t find my name on the list. There had been some sort of glitch w/ the computer and my u/s got put under someone elses name and social. So when you see the pics that why there is no name at the top. They had to mark it out and I just cropped it out as well. We still don’t know what happened, b/c as soon as I can into the room, the tech verified all my info, so my name was pulled up at that point. It’s a new machine and system, so they figured it was a bug or something was just different w/ the program or something. Who knows. Luckily the person (another OB patient) who’s name my u/s was under hadn’t been in yet, so we didn’t have to worry about the pics getting mixed up, but if they couldn’t get the name’s switched they were going to have to do the whole scan over again. No big deal, but luckily we didn’t have to.
I got called that afternoon and was asked to come back in b/c the radiologist wasn’t happy w/ some of the u/s pics and wanted some better ones. I figured it was the heart and spine pics, but it ended up being the legs and such. So I went back in that afternoon and they got those done. I guess they still aren’t happy w/ them b/c at my OB appt the next day I found out I have to go back in again. So I go Sept 3rd for another u/s. Hopefully this time this lil girl will cooperate better. The measurements they did Mon morning put the baby weighing about 14.2oz, which is a lil smaller than the last OB I saw was thinking. The midwife I saw a couple of wks ago figured (based on the length and size then, no measurements) the baby would be a lb or so by this u/s. But I know u/s can be off, since a few days before Max was born they were saying he was only 7lbs 14 oz give or take. Lol we know THAT was wrong. The crown to rump measurement of this lil girl was a lil over 5.5inches. According to the midwife she’s pretty long, but since they can’t really measure the total, we don’t know how long for sure. Just know she seems to have long legs (uh-oh!) We figure she’ll probably be about the same size or bigger than her brother when she’s born. Everyone has already been calling her the Bionic Baby b/c of how hard she’s been kicking. I’ve already been able to see my belly jump when she kicks and moves about for 2-3wks now.
Everything looked good and Baby girl seems to be fine and healthy which is the most important info of all. The estimated due date based on those measurements is Dec 25, but I don’t think they will change my due date since it’s only 3 days difference. But she’ll come when she wants to, just like Max. Matt just says she WILL be born before Jan 1 (taxes). But being our kids, I’m sure she’s probably got a stubborn streak, so she’ll come when she’s ready, whether it be Dec or Jan.

Lol, as some can probably tell, I just cut and pasted all that from the email I sent out. It's so much to retype!! But i did want to add a few things. Max was sick that wk, then Matt was sick tha wkend, and somehow I managed to stay in the clear. I'm still in amazement. So that made for a long week, plus Matt's work week just seemed at odds and his days seemed to run late. He ended up getting his trip out to Iwakuni (mainland Japan) switched from the first wk in Sept, to this wk, so he'd be home for the u/s on the 3rd. So he's been in Iwakuni all wk this wk, hopefully flying home tomorrow. He left Tuesday morning and actually pretty much finished all he needed to do that first day, day and a half. He got volunteered for some kinda for evacuation training, and ended up riding on a bus for 4-5hrs down to Sasebo navy base, stayed over night at the temp lodging, and then they rode back on the bus, for an even longer time (b/c of some miscommunications and set backs) to Iwakuni. The main thing that happened on that trip was shopping lol. It was mostly spouses that were part of the training, but they needed some marines too, so he was volunteered. All the spouses spend yesterday afternoon shopping out in town (apparently there is alots of shopping near the base) and part of the miscommunication today was a side trip for more shopping, that was apparently supposedly authorized, but after an hr of driving towards the area, it was found out that it wasn't authorized, so once that got straightened out they started heading to Iwakuni. So Matt has enjoyed riding on a bus for the past two days. I think it's the longest he's been in a vehicle since we flew out here! Oh well, at least he got to see more of Japan. I think next time he has to go out there, Max and I will try to go along as well. We didn't know that we could the first time he went, and this time was very last minute.
Another update: Max has used the potty 6times now (wahoo!!), is starting to say ppl's names, esp kids at daycare, and has learned how much fun it is to remove the 80wipes that are in each container of wipes...he riped open 5 packages....he had the sticker parts that you open stuck all over his PJ's when I found him...along with every diaper out and all those wipes everywhere...it looked like it has snowed...in Okinawa...
Oh! Almost forgot! Brought him to the dr when he was sick and found out that he is 33.5inches tall and was 28lbs, 9oz. of course that was a wk ago, so i'm sure he's a few ounces different now.

Well, thats it for now. Hopefully I'll get a chance to post again soon.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Gotta Support my Habit



Well, it's been a while since I've posted an update, so I reckon theres a lot to cover. We had a Professional dinner for Matt's unit we attended on July 15th. We had a good time but it was long and the food was so-so. It was fun to get dressed up and meet people though. We finally made it up to the aquarium during the time that Okinawa was celebrating the Ocean Festival. That was a lot of fun, but a LOT of people and a lot of driving time. It's about an hr or so north of here (less if we could drive faster lol). It took us about 1.5 or so hrs to get up there and we managed to snag some of the last parking there at the park/aquarium. We were meeting some friends up there and they were about 30mins behind us or so, and had to park at a satellite lot and get shuttled in. The aquarium was great but there were so many people we really didn't get to see everything very well or at all. There were some thigns we just by passed because of the amt of people crowding around. Thats ok though, we bought annual passes for Matt and I (max is free!) as we know we'll be going up there several more times in the next yr. This aquarium is huge, 4 floors! They have several Whale Sharks in a tank that goes up all 4 stories. Those suckers are huge! FYI the pic up there is a whale shark. They have lots of hands on areas and tons to do and see. After we went through the aquarium we met up w/ our friends and hung out at the festival. I'm learning that apparently festivals here are different then home. I expected some rides and games and such, but there were just tons and tons of food vendors, a concert stage and fireworks. And they shoot some fireworks off during the day. A lil odd, but cool to see the smoke make designs. They had an hr long fireworks and laser light/fire show put to music that was pretty night. We left after the first intermission b/c Max was so tired and we wanted to try and beat the traffic. yea...that didn't work...we left at 830...we were still sitting on the rd in front of the parking garage at 930...


But we did get to watch the entire fireworks show :) It took us 4 hrs to get home. 3 hrs of that was just getting back to the expressway. Which should have taken about 1/2 hr-45mins. Once you get on the expressway, it's freedom! I felt like we were going sooooo fast. We can drive 80km/hr...which is like 60mph. I felt like we were flying though. it's a big difference when the fastest your normally driving is about 37mph. So, yea, it was nearly 1am when we arrived home. But we had a great time and enjoyed hanging out with our friends. Ended up going into the ER the 22nd just to get some pains and funky sensations checked out, after being advised by two friends that are nurses. I figured the ER wouldn't be of much help, but they did at least get me a next day appt at OB to further assess things. Which i'm glad happened b/c I was able to meet a great midwife at OB that I'm going to try and get my next appts with so I can get to know her better and possibly have her as a requested person for delivery. She did an ultrasound on me that day and made sure everything was good to go, which made me feel a lot better. She also printed out several pictures just for me. She's a very personable and knowledgeable lady that I'm very impressed by. She looked to see if we could tell the gender, but baby was sleeping and relaxing the whole time and would only give us a profile view. She did remark about how long the baby was. She said it was a very long baby and that she wouldn't be surprised if at my 20wk u/s (this coming Mon Aug 11!!) the baby was already a lb or so. Which, if baby is, means this baby has a lil bit of a head start on Max. He was 1lb 2oz at 22wks gestation. Oh, that brings me to another thing. I had to go get yet another glucose test done as well and I passed it w/ flying colors. Hopefully they'll just all agree that I just have big babies. I know I'll still probably have to get it done again at the normal time (24wks) though. The midwife agreed w/ me about the big baby thing too.


My friend and I had a family day that we had to plan and get put back together (Long story i'm NOT getting into on here) on the 25th. That was a stressful and pain in the butt thing. not just b/c of planning, but b/c of other issues w/in all of it. But it happened, though only our families, another assistant's family and the CO's wife showed up. oh well.


Had another pedicure at a mommies day out too. Those are so great! Worth the money!


So as some heard, Max's crib got recalled a mo or so ago so I've been going through the process of getting that all figured out. Finally got that straight and got everything done with it, now we're just waiting for the co to get the paperwork, hardware and get a check cut and sent out to us. We went ahead and bought a new crib last week for the baby. We were going to wait til later, but found out the furniture store (only place to buy an american crib) wasn't going to carry the one we wanted after they sold all they had in stock. They had a good amt in stock, but it's there top selling crib so we decided to go ahead and get it. The company that makes it can't keep up w/ the demand for all the places it supplies, so AAFES (exchange and furniture store) is getting cut. I ordered a new stroller earlier in July, from a place called stollerdepot.com and was very impressed and pleasantly surprised by them. I ended up changing my order b/c the color I wanted became backordered. The co let me know immediately and I was able to easily change the color, get a $5 discount that was offered on that color and have it shipped out the day I changed the order. The Almost best part ---- they only charge $10 to ship to APO/FPO addresses right now b/c they have free shipping in the states. The BEST part ----they shipped it last wed, the 30th of July, and we received it Mon the 4th of Aug. How AWESOME is that! I have never received ANYTHING that quick! They are excellent customer service as well! So i highly recommend them! They have decent prices and great offers.


We had a get together are our great friend's the Yabut's house on saturday, and that was so much fun! We were busy cooking and gettin stuff ready most afternoon, but it was well worth it. We had TONS of food. I can't believe how much stuff they had made already and they we made after we got there. We had Yakisoba, Korean Ribs, Choc. Fondue, Corn on the Cob, Several dips, desserts, and other sides. I can't even rememeber everything we had! Matt and Max are STILL eating on leftovers that we brought home. What was supposed to be a simple cook out for our family and theres, ended up being more of a fancy, extremely plentiful meal w/ 15-20ppl.


So this wk, I have been a shop-a-holic. I've always known about japanupdate.com but never really did much perusing or anything. We found one of our cars on there when we first got here, but i haven't really looked much since then. Well, this wk, I've made up for it. I've been contacting ppl on there all wk about numerous things, everything from maternity clothes, swings, jumperoos, lamps, etc. I originally went there to see if anyone posted about having a jumperoo for sale. picked it up today : ) a Fisher price rainforest one in great condition. Purchased some maternity clothes yesterday, a shirt the day before, and I'm still going. Lol, Matt is threatening to ban me from the internet. but hey, how can you beat 6 shirts and a pair of pants for $10?? Especially being that these are MATERNITY, which most ppl know is expensive to by new. It's been difficult to find clothes here on the island, so i do alot of online shopping, but i get tired of paying shipping and waiting forever to my stuff (ok, not forever, but a wk or 2). The jumperoo i got today was used by one baby, for a coupla months. And I got a great deal on it. Esp since new they are between 70-80$ plus shipping. We have a jumper, but it's the one that hangs in the doorway, and our door frames here are a lot narrower and not as deep, so I don't think it'll work well.
So, like the title says, I gotta support my habit, so i've been posting ads up there for various clothing articles that I never wear or can't wear, ball/cocktail dresses, the jumper, and soon I'll have some toys posted. So hopefully I can get this stuff sold. haha, then Matt can't say much.
lol, actually, he told me earlier that recovering alcoholics don't put themselves in bars...so i shouldn't continue to peruse...but i gotta see what everyone's got and what they are selling for, so I know what to sell my stuff for...it's a vicious cycle, but a fun one :)

So the most exciting news to report, my 20 wk ultrasound is scheduled for Monday morning, so hopefully we'll know the baby's gender then. Just gotta eat some ice and drink some soda before I go in. Gotta make sure this baby is awake this time! No sleeping during the test!

Well, i'm sure I'll post on monday, so I'll let everyone know what we find out!
oh, lol, as you can see we got Max a potty this month. Just wanted him to get familar with it. Well, he decided he wanted to sit on it one day while I was blow drying my hair, and ever since, if asked to go potty, he RUNS to the bathroom all excited! He's gone on teh potty 3x all ready!! I can't believe it! We haven't done anything as far as training, just ask him if he wants to go potty several times a day and go goes and sits on it and picks out a book to look at! We look at books (he has a basket full next to the potty now) while he sits, and after 5-7mins he decides he's done. lol, but the 3x hes used the potty we praise him and give him treats (after hand washing of course lol) and he knows his potty gets dumped in the big potty and he loves to flush the toliet! So he's excited about it, and go super excited the other day when I bought him underwear lol, like he knew exactly what they were for. He opened the pack in the car and had them all in his lap and then was back there squealing and holding them up and going crazy! it was hilarious!! I wish I had a picture of him riding around w/ teh underwear in his lap and him holding it up to his head squealing!! Probably in a wk or so, i'll put them on him and see about getting him trained to know when he has to go. Wish us luck!
oh, haha, i keep forgetting stuff, the pic of Max w/ the green popsicle, was his first popsicle, and he loved it! they are made form fruit juice and slow melting, so great for kiddos! He didn't know it was going to be so cold though and stuck the thing in the mouth and then made the greatest face! it was great!

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Wow... a magnitude 6.2...

Well, as you may (or may not) guess (or hey, maybe you heard on the news, did you??) we had a earthquake here this afternoon. Thats the 2nd one (or at least the 2nd I felt and know of) we've experienced since arriving here. The first just felt like someone nudged the building. This one lasted longer and was very rumbly/vibrating. Very odd sensation. Wasn't really scary, though I did worry when it lasted longer than I expected. It's the worse I've ever experienced, but that doesn't say much. Eastern NC doesn't exactly have them regularly. Although there was one when I was in high school. Very minor, felt like a Mac truck drove by. This one mad the whole building shaking, the lights that hang above our counter/bar swaying and stuff vibrating enough that I hollered (not loudly or really alarmed) to move Max away from the glass cabinet full of glasses and such. It was actually rather funny, b/c when it first started, Max had literally just set foot on the ground, from getting off the couch, and b/c of the way it felt, my first thought was dang the boy is shaking the whole place lol, then i was like, oh, wow, maybe not! I just sat on the couch, lol, didn't even dawn on me to duck and cover or find a doorway.
So that was our excitement for the day. Last week was rather long. I can't remember what happened on Mon or Tues, but wedensday Max was throwing up and had a fever, so we made our weekly trip to Peds. Dr dismissed it all (his temp had dropped by then, it was 2hrs later), i was pretty perturbed about it. Wed was when most ppl around here got off for the 4th of July, and she was acting unconcerned and just wanted to get us in and out. Plus she made me feel like an idiot on some other stuff, and the King of All, she told me, Oh, by the way, i looked at Max's chest x-ray results and HE DIDN'T HAVE PNEUMONIA. ok, I was here the following wk after we had those done to get him checked out, yet you couldn't make a point to tell me this???? I spoke to another Ped and told him about it and he couldn't believe she retracted her diagnosis in the first place since she was the dr to examed him, heard his lungs and looked at the x-ray as soon as it was done. The radiologist just looked at it and thats it. He didn't see the patient or hear the patient or the symptoms. Yea, so we will not be seeing her again. She made me feel like an idiot b/c I asked her about the stomach virus i was told about by a Ped when Max had his diaper rash earlier in June, b/c that Ped told me that the virus that was going around, was making kids temporarily Lactose Intolerant, so we needed to switch him to Lactaid. We switched him to lactaid and he started getting better. We the dr (pringle, that made me mad) looked at me like i'd lost my mind and had no clue what i was talking about and said there was no such thing and that all stomach viruses are going to make kids sick to there stomach. ooookkk...
The reason I even asked her about it in the first place was b/c after his rash got better, and his BMs slowed down and got better (like 2wks later) i gave him 1 oz of reg milk, and the next day, we were back to poopmania again. So i was concerned he might still have problems w/ reg milk. She basically told me there was no way and if he was, there'd be other symptoms. like he'd have bloody poop, not just lots of loose poop. yeah....i spoke w/ the other dr (the one who originally told me about it) and he said that it is a possibility that he could be been in the process of becoming Lactose Intolerant and that bloody poop is a symptom of a Milk ALLERGY, not lactose intolerance. So Dr Pringle (to me) is the idiot. Not saying one dr is smarter than the other, but so far she's been striking out in my book, and his advice and diagnosis of whats been going on has been a lot more viable and normally on target. ahhhh..that vent made me feel lots better!
So, to continue on w/ our week. Even though Max wasn't feeling well (yet again, not that you could tell other than that he wouldn't eat), i needed some produce, so we still went to Jusco to check out there 99yen (basically $1) produce they have every wed. I was very impressed. We got a bunch (4 or 5) of bananas for 99yen, bag of grapefruits (like 6-7, i thought they were oranges..lol..can't read Japanese) for 99 yen and then some other snack stuff and baked goods for 99 yen. We didnt' know they had snacks, and fresh and packaged baked goods on sale too, so that was a nice surprise.
On thurs we went the Mona Kids Jungle again, Max seemed to be feeling better. Afterward though he started acting like he didn't feel good so we just hung out at home. Then thurs evening we needed to do a few things in town, so we ended up eating at Subway on base, and apparently, that was a bad idea. I was up all night and all morning w/ nausea and then throwing up, and then nauseous and horrible feeling all day friday. Thought i had what Max had on wed, until I found out Matt felt that same way, he just didn't throw up (lucky dog). So we figured it must have been food poisoning. Still not sure though b/c I'm hearing a lot of ppl have had something w/ the same symptoms lately. So could have been a virus. Jsut odd it hit us both at the same time. And of course since we felt horrible and worthless all day, Max felt great and was raring to go. So that was a LONG day. Needless to say we didn't really partake in any 4th of July festivities. We were going to go to a festival and then watch fireworks, but of course most of that didn't happen. However, we did figure out that we could watch the fireworks, launched at Kadena (about 10mins away) from our dining room. So Matt and I sat in there and watched in our Air Conditioned apt, not having to deal w/ othe rppl, mosquitos or traffic! So that part was great! And we had an encore on Sat night, b/c the festival was both days. Max of course was asleep for both. On Saturday we had to go to Kinser and get Matt and Max haircuts and get a few things. On Sunday Matt had duty, so Max and I brought him dinner in the evening. Yesterday matt had half the day off, Max went to daycare in the morning and then we had to do some grocery shopping. And then that brings us to today. Not much today. Did a lil shopping, had the earthquake and then went to a meeting for Young Marines.
So that's been our wk. Oh, and Ive decided I despise Walmart.com. They rip us off, so unless I have to purchase something there and I can site to store it and have someone pick it up and ship it to us, i'm giving up on em'. They've annoyed me way too much now. it's ridiculous what they charge military families living at APO/FPO addresses for shipping. They don't even actually ship it to us here... they ship the stuff to California and then the military takes it here adn it goes through the military postal system, so it's not like they are shipping to some far off place. Their minimum shipping charge seems to be almost $17. $17 to ship a couple of TODDLER shirts and shorts.... $17 to ship a potty that weighs 4.5lbs....$17 to ship ANYTHING, unless that is they can charge you more... like the stroller i was looking at..yea they want to charge me $60something for ship it. Babies R Us will only charge $30something. I found a better deal than both, so thats what I did, but it's ridiculous! Oh, and that potty, Target is only charging me $7 to ship it (same one, same price). Ridiculous. So me missing walmart is quickly dissapating.

so, this seems to be another one of those venting posts... sorry about that. Somehow it just seems to come out. I do want to say that we are doing well,other than a few bugs here and there and really enjoy being here. We miss everyone and can't wait to see everyone! Call us sometime or email us and let us know how you are doing!!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

I'm not Ghetto, I'm creative!!!!

So, let me start off by reminding everyone that I am pregnant. And for those who have been pregnant, you know that cravings, are well, quite hard to resist. And if you want something bad enough, you'll figure out a way to get it. In all honesty, this is not that creative of a moment, but I have to dispute my husband's claim that what I did was 'ghetto'.
So, this morning, i woke up w/ a craving for smores. no clue way, just had it. So when I went to the commissary this evening, I picked up all the good stuff so I could make some. Of course, some would question how I'm going to make smores. Am I going camping? am I going to build a bonfire on the balcony? obviously not that second one! And not the first either. Camping doesn't happen w/ me that much anymore. So, how am I going to make my masterpieces? I'm going to use my gas stove! It's an open flame, so it's perfect! If Matt had known that's what I was doing, he would have taken a picture, but he had no idea. He thinks that me making smores on the stove is hiliarious though. However, he didn't complain too much, since his mouth was full of smores!! Not much you can say when someone is nice enough to share their craving with you! He thinks this is one of those things for a scrapbook. Though he swears he will never forget it! So now I'm enjoying my smore, i only made 2 each, which I think is very good will for a preggo w/ a sweet tooth.
I've been putting off updating this, i just haven't felt like sitting down and messing with it. I know there is plenty to write about though. Like the fact that Max has pneumonia. Yep, he was diagnosed with it last wedensday. I had no clue or inkling that he would be diagnosed with that, i just thought his cold was back, He'd had one the later part of May. But apparently they think this is a complication of that cold. He was wheezing when the dr checked him out, so of course the barage of question about asthma and such insued. Dr thinks I may have had undiagnosed asthma when I was little, b/c I told her that I had asthmatic bronchitis once when I was two, and I typically got sick (bronchitis or upper resp. infection) around the same time every yr (in the fall, when the seasons change). Not so sure about this thought, and my mother doesn't agree, but i don't think it's really going to affect me or anyone else now. Anyway, the main reason I brought Max into Peds in the first place was b/c tues evening, out of the blue, he had a fever of 103.3. Of course I called the nurses line to see if he needed to go to the ER ( i couldnt seem to find the info about fevers and danger zones for his age). Dr said as long as he was hydrated and not lethargic, to bring him in to Peds in the morning. Well, they're definition of lethargic is a limp rag. Max wasn't a limp rag, but he was far from normal running around getting into everything Max. Matter of fact, he could barely keep his eyes open and just sat/laid w/ me on the couch for a long time. For those of you who don't know - Max is not much of a cuddler. He likes a hug and to be held for a moment if he's hurt, but that lasts about .03sec. So this was odd. But since he was a rag, we waited til the morning. Which was fine, he was fine all night and in the morning, but still had a high temp. The dr set him up for a breathing treatment b/c of the wheezing and then we were sent up for chest x-rays. He did so great w/ both things. You'd think it was an everyday occurence or at least something fun. he seemed to love the breathing treatment. X-ray he sat still and grinned/laughed the whole time. Thats the other issue w/ Max. He doesn't ACT sick, unless his temp gets really high. This whole time, you'd never guess he was sick. He runs, plays, gets into trouble, everything. One might think he had a slight cold b/c of his coughing and runny nose, but that'd be about it. So judging how he feels doesn't work so easily. The dr sent us home w/ antibiotics for 10days and an an inhaler thing to use. He had to have 4 puffs every 4 hrs for 24hrs, then 2 puffs every 4 hrs as needed. You'd think he'd really dislike this, esp since this one, has a mask that goes over this mouth and nose, but he seemed to love it and when he saw it, he'd immediatly calm down. Now, however, he's not so keen on it. Guess it's old news. Well, my biggest concern, other than the fact that Max had pneumonia and the dr didn't really act like it was worse than a cold (she said he could do whatever he wanted, just not to be around other kids while he had a fever), was that his temp kept going up and staying high and going up more, even after having doses of motrin AND tylenol (mot, 3 hrs later, tyle, 3 hrs later,mot). But his temp started going down and staying down around sat, it was in the 99's, but then sun and mon it was in the 100's (not above 101) again, so I was worried he was getting worse. Oh, and FYI, i have no idea of what wheezing sounds like. I've had it described to me, but i've yet to hear it in Max, so i was concerned i was missing stuff. When I brought him in to see the nurse mon, he was wheezing, so we did a breathing treatment and then she checked him 30mins later, and he'd stopped, and his O2 level had gone up. His lungs sounded better too. So he's doing a lot better i guess. like I said, it's hard for me to tell very well. His temp is still in the 100s, but I think it's from the tooth coming in. So that's been our biggest excitement.
Next up would be Max's new bed. great timing huh? When we ordered it, he wasn't sick, or at least we had no idea he was, more than a cold anyway. His bed was delivered on Fri. I LOVE the furniture store we bought it from. It's in town, not on base. The price of the bed and mattresses, was all we paid. They delivered it and assembled it and cleaned everythign up adn took the trash -- for no extra fees!!! and may I remind you, we live on the 4th floor w/ no elevator! These guys deserved fees! or at least a tip! But here you don't tip ppl. and it can/will offend ppl (some) if you offer it. I'm so used to the states where they charge you $50 to deliver something around the corner, and then they just barely put it inside your door, they won't even put it where you need it. and they are usually rude, rushed or act as though they deserve a tip. American businesses REALLY need to take some lessons from these businesses here. They do a great job b/c they should, and b/c they take pride in their work. The hospitality is just tremendous. Ppl go out of their way to help you. moving on though (i'll get off my soapbox!) Max's bed was setup fri, so his first time was that night. Luckily he was so tired, he didn't care where he slept. He really liked his bed though. we sat on it, played on it, etc. He wasn't too keen on naptime on sat though. He end up falling asleep behind his door. Naptimes still don't go as well as nighttime, but it's all getting better. He's getting up at the crack of dawn though. I really hope that goes away soon. i used to take a shower before he got up or before he was very much awake. now, when he's up, he's banging on his door to be set free. Before, he'd play in his crib. but I'm sure it'll all get worked out soon.
I guess the next thing is my car. We brought it in yesterday to get the oil changed, brakes checked, etc. Come to find out the shoes on the back had to be replaced. We knew the brakes had been replaced recently before we bought it, but they didn't specify, so we didn't know it was just the front ones. and they didn't clean them before they replaced the front ones, so that was a mess. So instead of having the few piddly things done yesterday, my car had to stay overnight and have abotu $400 worth of stuff done. Luckily we had access to another car the we could use. That way neither of us was w/o one.

I reckon thats about it for this time though. I'm ready for bed. Mornings come a lot earlier these days. I'll try to update earlier next time. Now to get all the smores crumbs off the desk....and my lap...

Sunday, June 8, 2008

In a Glaxy Far Far Away...

So, I wasn't expecting to be blogging again this soon. But, alas, our Saturday was quite eventful and humerous. Oh, and i guess first off, I should say, that Matt finally made it home Friday evening! Yay! He had to hop a cargo flight to get here, but all went well. Now he can add a C-5 to the list of aircraft he's rode on. Since he made it home Friday night, we were able to get to Young Marines on Saturday. We are starting to get into it a lil more, though it's difficult right now (they meet from 8am-2pm on sats, and the group is HuGe, and we dont' know anyone to babysit Max). We didn't go for long, I wasn't feeling very well (thank you morning sickness) and it had been raining all morning, so I knew all the kids would be inside, so keeping Max out of everyone's hair would be difficult. We decided not to go actually, but since we had to go get Matt's haircut, we decided to stop by and at least see what was going on and get word for coming events. The next event we have w/ them is Mess Night. It's this Friday evening and we are greatly looking forward to it. We are currently in search for a babysitter for Max, but we have a few ppl in mind. Hopefully all works out well so that we can attend. While we were at YM, one of the staff, who is also the FRO for Matt's unit, told us about a great restaraunt for us to try sometime. Well, it just so happened that Sat. evening was Parents Night Out. It's a great program that MCCS/CDC puts on the first sat of every month. It's 5.5hrs (5-1030pm) of free childcare at the CDC on each base so that parents can go out and have dinner and have an evening to hang out together. *This is another reason I wanted Matt home this weekend. It would have been a lonely evening having dinner by myself* So as we tried to decide what to do, this lil tidbit of info about the restaraunt - called Jack's Place - was duely noted. We decided to go bowling, we hadn't been since before Max was born and the only other thing we'd thought about doing was go to a movie, but nothing of interest was showing. So we went a bowled 2 games, I won one, Matt won the other. Afterwards, we decided it was time for dinner. So off we went to Kadena AFB to try out Jack's. It's a very nice place, w/ a lounge area, a Teppanyaki area (think Mushashis or Shogun where they cook in front of you), a dining room, and a outside area for eating, hanging out or dancing. We decided to go to the dining room. We were seated at a very nice table in a very nice room. Small, quaint, only 10-12 tables there. And there was a older Japanese gentleman playing on a keyboard. On our way in I saw a sign for a speical of Alaskan King Crab. Let me tell you, I have been wanting some crabmeat for so long! My parents fried up some a few days before we came out here, and I've wanted more since! So, I'm just so excited about the special. Until I see the price. It's $22.95. Whoa, I'm thinking, theres no way! Well, Matt convinced me to get it, said I deserved after this past week, plus he got per diem while in Iwakuni and didn't use that much while there. So We had extra money for a very nice evnening. Anyway, after seeing what I got for the money, it's actually a great price. My meal consisted of: soup, salad (large salad at that), rolls, 1lb crab legs, baked potatoe, veggies, compliementary glass of wine (Matt drank obviously), coffee of tea and dessert. So we thought i was very much worth the price. Anyway, on to our entertainment. Our FRO told us the karoke guy was great and funny, but i think he was in the Teppanyaki area. The gentleman we had, who we later learned also played Flute, sax and other things I'm sure, did a wonderful job playing his music. However, it was the songs that were a lil odd. Soon after we sat down, he played Take Me Out to the Ball Game. Then When You Wish Upon a Star. So we're sitting there thinking, wow, we'ren't expecting those. Then he plays more normal stuff, I Just called to Say I Love You, Dancing Queen. Well, a few mins after these two songs, the CO and 1st Sgt (and their wives) from the unit Matt was working w/ in Iwakuni come in. They rode on the cargo flight w/ Matt. So we start talking to them and go about our dinner. Until a new song comes up. Then we all look at each other, puzzled looks on our faces, and start laughing. The guy was playing Mary Had a Little Lamb. We couldn't believe it. We thought that was the best song he'd played yet. The played a few other things, but the final song we played, was the utmost best possible. The theme from Star Wars. I think we laughed all night about it. The CO started joking Matt about the entertainment here on Oki, but Matt reminded him we were at an Air Force base, not USMC. We just could not get over the entertainment. It was great.
After we left Jack's, we decided to see if the Ferris Wheel was running. It's a huge one, like one that is in CA somewhere. It's in American Village here (it's based of off a area in CA, I just can't remember where). It's on the 3rd floor, well, roof, of a building in the village. We can see it from our apt, and we live a good ways away. So, we get there and realize the 3rd floor (other than the ferris wheel) is a arcade type place. Matt and I have always been big on air hockey and always try to kick each others butt in it. I won all the time when I was preggo w/ Max - but of course it was an unfair game I'm told, it was 2 against 1. So we decided after the ride we'd play. The sign says its a 15min ride, and it is all of that. It seemed to go soooo slow. I mean, don't get me wrong, I think it's a crock when you go to a carnival and ride one, and before you sit down it's at the bottom again, but jeez. I get a lil antsy being up there that high hanging from a few nuts and bolts. It was beautiful view, it was dark, but it was cool to see all the lights and you could see for quite a ways. Might have to get the nerve to go again during the day sometime. So after we got off, we played 2 games of air hockey, and we both won a game. But let me tell you, w/ this pregnancy I am off my mark. Bowling and air hockey has been my think, esp during my pregnancy w/ Max. This time though, I guess this baby isn't much for it. When we left there we went and picked Max up. Didn't want to have him there the whole time. 9pm was late enough. Well, we get there, and they are eating snack. That's the other thing, the provided snack AND supper for the kids! I'm not sure what they had for supper, but they had chocolate chip cookies for snack!!!!!! at 9pm!!!!! and that included Max, a pretoddler!!!!!!! I still can't get over that. He probably thought he was in heaven! He's never had a choc chip cookie in his life!
I'm not quite mad about it, just mostly surprised and somewhat annoyed at the thought of him eating cookies at 9 at night. I was very happy w/ the program though and I know Max enjoyed it. He was happy to see us though. Luckily, the cookies didn't do much for him. He was awake the whole way home, perky even, but after his bath, he went straight to bed. never heard a peep.
So that was our saturday. We thought it was quite funny and thoroughly enjoyed it. Max has his 15month check up this wk and then we have Mess night friday night, so I'm sure I'll have more to blog about soon! I hope all is well w/ everyone!!

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

What a week!




Been a while since I've updated so here goes!
This past wk has been pretty long. Matt left for Iwakuni on Monday, and was supposed to be back today, but there were no flights coming here today. So now we're just trying to figure out when exactly he'll be home. And of course no body can tell him anything about flights until 8pm the night prior. So not much time to figure anything else out. not that there is any other way really for him to get home, unless he wants to swim very very far. I told him if he doesn't make it by the wkend, he better start swimming. So, this wk, other than dealing w/ morning sickness, i've had very little sleep (i don't sleep well when he's gone, least not til he's gone for several days and I get used to it) and a toddler w/ a very bad diaper rash. We spend last evening from 6pm-9pm at the ER trying to get his bottom looked at and get meds for it. When we were finally seen the dr didn't even really look at it, so i wasn't thrilled and brought him to the Peds today to be looked at. Glad I did b/c apparently it's getting an infection, yeast they think. So the diaper cream the dr last night prescribed (which the pharmacy was out of) wouldn't have done much good. So now I have 2 creams to put on this is lil diaper time terror. But hopefully in a few days it'll be much better. Nothing else has worked different pullups, different cream, running around naked,etc), so i'm crossing my fingers.
We also have this AWESOME political race going right now in Okinawa, and b/c of this every day at all times of day, lil cars, buses and vans w/ speakers, drive around, numerous times around our apt, w/ the volume turned up as loud as possible, and talk about the candidates and such. Least I assume they are, since I don't understand much more than Konnichwa and Arigato (Good afternoon and Thank You). They always seem to know when Max's (and mine some days) nap times are, b/c they make a point to come around during that time. I was told that it should be ending soon. Man I so hope so. These ppl are sooooo annoying. Other than invading my space w/ their speakers, they drive extremely slow, and if you get stuck behind them, you better add another hr in your schedule, b/c you won't be getting anywhere any time soon.
Wow, this update is turning more into a vent huh? Like I said, it's been a long week.
So let me see, other non-venting things that have happened since the last post...
The dr at my first appt changed my due date (dec 28 from dec 19) b/c the baby was measuring 9 days smaller. Though, I think the baby is just small for it's age, b/c theres no way that i know of, that the baby could be that much younger...at least it doesn't make since to me.
So I have my next appt in a lil over a wk, and I get to see my dr from Cherry Point that I loved, so I'm very happy and excited. I'm going to talk to her about it and see if she'll do another ultrasound and see if we can't get this figured out. The dr at my first appt also wanted me to do the gestional diabetes test early on, since Max was such a hoss. She wanted to make sure diabetes didn't set in after the test or after he was born. So i had that test done last wk (yummy extra sugary drink and a blood draw, yay!)and I gotta call to find out my results. I would assume if it was bad they'd call me by now, but who knows. The really fun part is that I still have to do the test at the normal time too. So come Aug time frame I get to go again! YAY!
Max has started saying mama and dada mroe now, and though it's not always towards us, he seems to be linking those words to us more so. He's grown so much. When we measured him last he was 31.5 inches tall and 26.5lbs. I need to measure him again though, b/c the PJs I put on him yesterday were all the sudden too short. We're going to be getting his big boy bed sometime this month. It's been raining here a lot this wk. Today it's finally sunny, though earlier, the bottom dropped out anyway. It is the rainy season here though, so I guess we better get used to it. It's gotten a lot warmer and a ton more humid. The other day on base, at 11-12 it was already a black flag (means no out door activity b/c it's too hot). We're still waiting on our vonage phone to get here, and when we do we'll get the number out to everyone. Well, thats all I have for now, the only other things I can think of are venting things, lol. I'll try to update more!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

We finally have internet!!!

Finally, today the phone/internet people came and installed our internet today!! Yay!! But everything wasn't just peachy, b/c after they left, i couldn't get online. So i had to call the company we went through and spend about 45mins on the phone w/them trying to figure it all out. This whole process would be much easier if the things you had to do online were in English...
However, it's all in Kanji and though I've taken some Japanese, Kanji is a different animal. Kanji is the symbols they use to write in. I just learned some words (written out just like this) and how to put a few sentences together. Either way, it's finally working. Of course, since it's working, now our phone (through the internet) is not. We can't figure out what the matter is, and it's after office hours. It worked earlier in the evening, before we messed with stuff trying to set up the wireless router. We've tried puttings things back the way they were, but alas, that didn't work. So no phone calls stateside, or here for that matter, tonight.
So on to an update
Well, as many of you have heard, I'm pregnant w/ our second child. The baby is due around Dec 19ish. I have my first dr's appt next friday and we'll have an ultrasound then as well, so we're pretty excited. I'm too early to find out gender, that probably won't happen til around Aug or so, b/c thats when the next regularly scheduled ultrasound will be (around 20-22wks preggo). So with this pregnancy comes fatigue and nausea, though it seems to be worse this time. I'm not sure if thats b/c i don't have to good meds that I had last time (they gave me the good stuff right from the get go), and this time i only have vitamin b6 and phenergan (for the time being), or if it's worse b/c i'm also chasing around a lil munchkin or if it's just plain out worse.
Matthew is doing well, taking on a lot of stuff around the house when I get really nauseous. He's been great about cooking and doing dishes and such. He's busy with work, he has quite a large unit out here. Much larger than his previous. Theres another career planner w/ him though, so thats nice. It's just a matter of figuring out whose doing what.
Max is doing great too. He's getting so big! Gets into everything these days. He's learned to climb on the coffee table, couch, some chairs and the ottoman that goes w/ my glider (which of course glides too), so we're constantly after him to get off something or to be careful. He's also gotten very infatuated with pushing buttons. Primarily on the TV, reciever and CD player. He gets in trouble several times a day messing with those. But he's sooo stubborn!!! Which, yes, I know he got honestly, from his dad and myself. Poor guy didn't have a chance w/ that trait! He has 11 or 12 teeth now. I'm losing count. I know he has at least 3 molars now and 8 teeth in the front, but another could have popped up in back recently.
I'm currently uploading pics to the web, so I'll be emailing out the link when I'm finished so everyone can see what we've been up to and see our apt, cars, etc.
We've started helping out with a Young Marine unit out here now, intermittenly that is. We joined the Foster YM's, but haven't been to too many meetings yet. Last wk they went ice skating (yea, here in Okinawa!) and we figured since im preggo I probably shouldn't (though i wanted to!) so we just stayed home. We go the meetings that we can (when I'm not feeling awful and something else isn't going on). It's nothing like Havelock though. Just isn't the same. They meet on sat from 8am-2pm, so it's a lot longer meeting, and hard to do w/ Max. The unit is a lot bigger than what we're used to, but the kids and the staff all seem to be great and hard working. The CO is a Sgt, so thats a lil odd, but hey, thats the staff they have. They are working hard to get the unit to where it needs to be.
So last wk was a big wk for us. With Matt's mom's birthday, my birthday and then Mothers Day. Matt and Max got me a spa pedicure (which was awesome!!!) from the lil spa on base. I've never had a pedicure of anykind, so the whole experience was new. I felt so pampered afterward! lol, some won't believe this, but i have flowers painted on my toes. yeah, me, w/ pinky/burgundy nail polish and lil white flowers. i can't believe it myself. I even took a few pics to prove it. I'll try and get them posted next time I'm up here. I also got a big chocolate heart w/ candies inside it for Mothers day (yeah, just what I need). We went to church Sunday at the contemporary service on Futemna again. We tried a Church of Christ service the sunday prior, went to the building and room in the Chapel pamphlet, at the said time, but there was no one there. not even a preacher. So we left and went to Shuri Castle (historical landmark/tourist attraction) and toured it and then went to Babies R Us and Toys R Us in Naha (both are SOOOOO EXPENSIVE!!!). Anyway, we like the contemporary service and Max seems to enjoy the nursery. Everyone there is very nice and friendly. Both times we've been though, the reg preacher hasn't done a sermon. THe first time we went it was another member (and it was on Evoluion...lol it was kinda odd, but a good sermon. They guy is a science teacher and basically told us way evolution doesn't hold up, etc) and this past sunday the preachers wife did the sermon. And all the mommies got roses : ) So I got to feel all special again. Except, when we have coffee and cookies afterward, we forgot my rose in the fellowship hall : (
Well, i think I've written quite a bit, Matt has even asked me if i'm writing a novel, so i think it's time to put an end to this. I'm going to try and get some more pics uploaded, as well as get some up here tomorrow. I hope all is well w/ everyone and that this satisfies Some people (Sheila!! Do ya miss me yet?) in their longing for an update. : ) : )

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Hey Everyone,
Don't have much time to update, but I did want to least let everyone know we're alive and kickin'
we still don't have internet set up at the apt yet, the waiting list is long. Hopefully next wk we'll get the call to set up the appt time for installation. That's when it's SUPPOSED to happen anyway. We're doing well, trying to get stuff put away and get settled in. We've been here a month so far, so only 35 more to go! We're enjoying it though. It's so much more laid back here then in the states. Found out shipping, at least from walmart doesn't take long at all. they shipped the rug I ordered for Max's room last wk and we got it yesterday. I'm very impressed. Looks like I'll be checking out other stuff on their website more often now when we need something. We got my car on monday and it's soooo nice to have my own vehicle now. I have the freedom to go more places and get out more. Plus i don't have to worry about taking Matt to work if I have something going on. I have Japanese language classes next wk that I signed up for, 4 days out of the wk. That would have sucked to have to get up at 530am everyday to take matt to work. Oh for those who don't know, my car looks like a squashed van. it's a Toyota Ipsum. A 96' i believe. Sits up to 7 or 8 ppl. and the rear seat folds flat, which is wear it stays. We just didn't have much room in the Cube (which is now Matt's vehicle), so this works so much better. Once the stroller was in teh cube, the wasn't much rm for groceries and such. It's much more roomy. Both vehicles get great gas mileage. about 35-40mpg I think. Can't remember exactly. It's hard to remember stuff like that b/c you have to figure it out first which means converting everything from kilometers or liters or whatever measurement you're trying to do, to what we're used to. plus, the car goes in Kilometers, measures in liters, but on base, the gas station is gallons, just like the states. out in town gas is sold by the liter i believe (we never get it there, it's more expensive). Well, like i said gotta keep this short. I'll update again soon. Hopefully we'll have internet then and I can post pics. Hope all is well back home. We miss everyone!!

Friday, March 21, 2008

more pictures


most people pay their bills at various gas stations like Lawsons. Everything from rent, cellphones, electric to gas, water, etc












a few of the cars here..we're actually looking for something like the middle one




these funky looking trees are everywhere. They look kinda like pines from a distance, but they don't have needles...